u knw, i thought abt my life... the kinda life i am leading... and gonna lead...
well u see, alot of times, mostly, we think about whom we're gonna live... who would be our life partner, would he be nice, good looking (so secondary sch... i know), status of the guy, education level etc... the list goes on & on...
we need companion so that we won't feel lonely... or feel not being loved... we need some kinda security...
we love our family, friends and wat more we need? a special someone...
But i came to realise over time that we get hurt more den juz getting sme happiness.... u wish u were single wen u're attached... vias versa... but den, i realised, why all tis hassle wen u can divert ur energy on smething else? make urself smeone successful?
I suppose u can oni b successful in one part of ur life... prolly ur career... but love? it doesnt seem to b my cup of tea... I want more den juz be someone's gf or wife.. i want to b smeone in the society... so wat i dont hve a family of my own? instead of dwelling over it, i use that bit of energy and focus on doing smething more productive..
i dont wanna b tied down.. nor get committed.. i tried, bt realised, i'd rather check out cute guys... date few chaps & move on... keep moving on... becoming too westernised? i suppose females are becoming very independent these days... date? to pass time & get cosy once in awhile like how we wanna pamper ourselves, aight?
work hard, play hard... party all life... a nice beautiful house, car, prestigious memberships & exotic getaways... wat more do i need? shld i have the trouble of rushing hme frm a project & cook dinner for my hungry family? or have a tiff with my husband in front of my children or worry why hasnt my child returned hme yet?
I guess i am coward to face all these.. but hey! it's my life man!
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i am not sure with ya view of women becoming independent. Sham i am 24 goin to be 25 next year. In mylife i have only dated... Wait i think i can count that on my fingers...I am sure enough to say that all the women i when on a date and the lady friends i have always call me to say that they miss their EX and how much they gone through with their pass relationship and the phobia they have to start a new one.
U know i started having phobia too..Phobia when i go out with a gal on a date they will start talking about their EX.
I believe a independent woman will not think much about her pass and move on. Which i think it lacks on all the bloody woman i met. This is somethin gets into my nerve.
If i am goin to write more it will be longer then ur blog. HAHA
Hi Sugmad... Thnks for ur comments...
I suppose same goes to guys... every time i go out wit guys, dey tend to tok abt their ex gfs or sme gal dey were interested in etc... honestly, i dont care... i hve ever told dem off not to tok abt their past cos it got nthin to do wit me at all...
well, sme gals dwells on their past failed relationship... alot,dnt move on or do silly things to seek attn, which i think the guy wldnt b bothered. the more he wld laugh at her in fact... and so who is at the losing end? the gal... cos she's so dumb...
well, if one fails, move on... the ocean is so big... u're yet to find the perfect one... while finding for one, widen ur social circle... keep ur options open... learn the mistakes made in ur previous relationship & dnt repeat it...
tis is 21st century... the era where most women stay home is slowly diminishing... so ya... move on! it's ur life!!! =P
Hi...was reading your comments and you friend's comment. I've never been in a real relationship before but I believe that why people talk about their ex with thier current because they have expectations...
So why not drop the expectations...learn to blend together...where in the case it's not possible...than leave...of coz it's gonna hurt...but hey...life a bitch... :)
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