makes me wonder...

Sometimes in life, u wonder about a lot of things... why it has to happen in such way... why u have to meet such person... why did it happen to u and not someone else... or why did it happen to ur fren.. etc... the list goes on... out mind is always wondering... simple things like, why isnt the bus here yet... why am i here instead of some where else... why hasnt my fren replied my sms or return call... is he/she ok... did anything happen etc... Phew! the tot of it makes me wonder now why am i typing this out...



I was having a long conversation wit my very good fren on the phone and made me wonder a lot of things... how much a guy can love a gal so much... the pain he had to go thru is immense... "accidently" falling from 11 storey, waiting for hours wit flowers and gift bt she ddnt turn up cos she was clubbing wit some other guys... so many stuff... too many to name here... yet he still loves her... yearning for her love... for her warmth... yet she doesn't seem to care...



He asked me, "Shameni, is it possible to fall in love wit another gal if I were to leave tis gal".

Interesting qn and i was surprised to wat i've answered to tat.

"Nand, it is possible to fall in love wit another gal because watever quality u're looking for in tis gal, another gal may have it and she will love u more den u would love her. Go for someone who loves u more den u love her cos tat's wen u will start appreciating it and fall deeply in love wit tis whole... although it's not easy to forgot ur current love, it is possible to move on but it's only the matter of time."



He tot i made some sense... but he finds it too difficult to move on simply... of cos he cant... no one can... memories will haunt u... but den again, it makes u a better person... a stronger person that u will know wat to look out for... not repeat the same mistakes... not to b dumb again and to love her again... each moment of his life... making both happy...



After having a conversation wit my fren, I realised how lucky I am to be single and free... i dnt have to go thru any pain... I can concentrate on my stuff and be who I am... enjoy the company of my frens and be a free bird... i am nt tied down as yet and be whoever I wanna be...



But den again, if i ever get lucky (which I never am) meet some nice guy and hopefully for a life long r/s and no more dates...